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    August 31

    无病呻吟

     整天劳碌,日出而作,日落而息,
    永远对妈妈说忙,对朋友说烦,
    少有时间能够静下心来梳理思绪,
    这,是不对的。
     
    其实都知道,
    任谁休息地球它老人家都照转不误,
    因为人家那么大一玩意儿,
    眼睛里碾不进那些芝麻小事。
     
    我们不过是超级标准的普通人,
    哪里做得到真的大公无私,
    怎么可能事事完美?
     
    这事儿说起来得怪我爸我妈。
    伦理道德教的太周正,
    真的不见得是件好事。
     
    总以为把活儿做好是应该的,
    总以为按时完成任务是起码的,
    总以为规矩是必须遵守的,
    总以为不计较琐事是美德,
    总以为日久见人心,
    总以为善恶有报,公道自在人心。
     
    其实,
    活儿做的好,是你一个人的好,因为论功行赏。请能者多劳。分工不仅仅是效率问题。人是情绪动物,大家本是同根生。+∞和-∞经常算出同一个结果0,太好或太差其实差不多。
    要认清事物的本质。人类辩证思考,上帝才不发笑。
     
    任务每次都太按时了,无端影响别人的工作习惯,给人压力,这叫损人不利己。标准是一回事,感觉是另一回事。
    要有大局观。正好就好。
     
    规矩当然是应遵守的,但是作为一项人定的事物,对象范围也是人定的,评定标准也是人定的,所以怎样才算遵守规矩当然也是人定的。规矩不是目的是手段。
    要以人为本。识时务者为俊杰。
     
    琐事不要计较,但是什么样的算是琐事?I'm sorry,这事儿也不是你自己说的算得。该计较的不计较,就是别有用心。自视清高的人只能被多扣几顶高帽。
    要有自知之明。多换位思考。
     
    日久见人心,只怕等不到那么久,彪悍的人生不需要解释,如果不彪悍,就不能懒惰。
    要珍惜当下。人言可畏,立名请趁早。
     
    善恶有报,可是,时候未到难道拖着腮帮子等着?公道自在人心,但不在那个very important people的人又有何用。
    要审时度势。无知者才无畏。

    年轻的时候天真一些,是初生牛犊,
    老大不小了还总不切实际,就是自绝于人民了。

    以前老觉得特别阴暗或者说的好听一点叫有城府的人才会罗嗦上述废话,自己写了才知道这都是无数血泪史筑就的真经。
    社会很现实的。做梦也要有资本的。不然的话,庸人自扰,悉听尊便。

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